A lot of misunderstand in here.
1. Ping measured on test will never be accurate unless you run your server literally in your home.
2. Anti-ddos and entity (any player on the server) with sending packets to it is a normal thing, how can they ddos with just joining on their ip even on vpn lol.
3. How can they get 10 ping from Iraq to Germany?
4. Tasks also are nothing here, you can easily hide anything from there.
We can talk in other way here, I can give app to listen for one game function address and see what does it return